It's been a while since I've heard from you. How have you been? I was disturbed to hear about the issues you're going through--you rarely socialize these days. What really happened? What changed in your life that you decided to shut the world out? I really care about you and would love to share some things with you.
My dear sister, it is such a pity that you've allowed others define you. You believe the lie they tell you about your physical appearance, abilities, and techniques. They trampled on your self image and left you feeling broken, rejected, and unloved. They say you're not tall, fair, or smart enough to feel among. They make you feel less of who you are because you don't fit into their way of life. Sweetheart you should never have believed that; you're more than who you think you are. You're unique in your own special make-up. There is no second you; you're the only you the world can or will have. Isn't that amazing?
The sad thing is that you've accepted the definition of folks that do not qualify to define you and neglected the definition of The One who created you. The Bible says that you're wonderfully and fearfully made by God (Psalm 139:14). You must know that you're God's treasure regardless of how you look, talk, walk, sleep, and eat. God was very careful in making you because you're His baby girl and He didn't want anything to go wrong. You're not a mistake, you're very intentional.
I couldn't believe my ears when I read the letter you sent to me last week---that you're willing to compromise your virtues and move in with a man just so he could fully accept you. What! That's not acceptable! Cohabiting is not a criterion for acceptance. I don't know what your perception of love is but I must say that true love has no conditions. Conditional love is no love at all. Never belittle yourself to gain cheap favour. A man that needs something from you to love you is not worthy of you. You also said that he's the only one that has loved you regardless of your flaws and past mistakes--with all due respect sister, I disagree with you on that. If a man truly loves you regardless of your past mistakes, there won't be a condition to fullly accept you. Don't mistake lust for love dear. I don't care how anyone else defines it, cohabiting is and will always be wrong. You should know that God's love has no conditions.
Now let me tell you a brief story. A young girl was in desperate need of love because she was rejected by family and friends. She would go to any length just to be accepted by family and society, and out of the blues her prince charming (so to speak) came into her life. She felt so loved because the young man gave her 84 missed calls one night(mind you the man was after something). She thought to herself that the guy truly loved her because he was able to call 84 times( a predator also waits patiently to devour it's prey). Her eyes opened up when the guy started demanding for sex and other things she couldn't give. To cut the long story short, the relationship ended in a drastic way leaving the poor girl used and humiliated. I'm sure you're probably wondering where am going with this - I will tell you. It's so disheartening how some ladies perceive certain things as love. You must know that a guy would go to any length to get what he wants and he will sure dump you afterwards.
My prayer for you is that you'll come to know and experience the genuine love of Jesus. Jesus loves you more than you will ever love yourself. No matter how much a guy proclaims love to you, he won't die on a wooden cross for you (John 15:13). Jesus went through so much pain and suffering just so you could have a better life. The love of Jesus is something the human mind can't fathom, a love that we clearly don't deserve. If you think 84 missed calls from a guy is love, well am pleased to inform you that Jesus has been calling you much longer than that. Every second of your life is a call from God, that means in a year Jesus has given 31,536,000 missed calls and he's has been calling you according to the number of your age. I'm pretty sure you can't even calculate that. No man has or will ever love you like Jesus. His love is patient enough to wait for years just to get your attention. His love is unconditional enough to accept you completely regardless of your past mistakes. His love is pure enough to cleanse you of your filths and faults and make you whole again. Why not accept Jesus' love today and enjoy a sweet relationship beyond your imagination.
In conclusion, be of good cheer. Don't ever forget that you're the apple of God's eyes. You're loved, unique, precious, wonderful, beautiful, whole, awesome, and needed. Be the best of yourself always! I love you sister.
Yours truly,
Ifeyinwa.
Wow ☺️☺️.
ReplyDeleteThis is amazing 😘😘